What the heck are we going to wear to our session?!


If you’re coming up on family photos, I am sure you are wondering…what should we wear? Thats the #1 question that I get from Moms after they book their session! And trust me…I GET IT! Coordinating outfits for the entire family can be a challenge. That’s why Im going to offer you some practical and simple advice on how to go about choosing outfits for everyone and having a seamless put together look.

Intimate family moment captured in bright indoor setting.
Family sharing joyful moment among purple iris flowers in garden setting.
Family portrait on a beach at sunset with baby in white dress and parents in casual summer attire.

Choose a color palette


This can vary depending on the season, the location, and your preference. My go-to advice on this one is to choose 2-4 colors to coordinate within the outfits. Neutrals are my go-to faves and next in line are dull/muted colors. I recommend avoiding neon or bright colors because it will be really distracting in photos. My second suggestion would be to choose colors that can be naturally found within the location. For example: if you are in a wooded area with browns and greens, id choose earthy tones like tans, beiges, greens like sage, and light browns.

The next thing to keep in mind is the season! Lighter colors give off more of a summer feel while darker shades are better saved for fall or winter sessions. Again, what colors you choose are totally up to you and your preference. However, keep in mind that colors play a HUGE role in the aesthetic look and feel of the photo. If you're having a hard time picking different colors to combine, try adding different shades of the same color.  That way there will be some contrast among the outfits and everyone will stand out on their own rather than blending together!


P.S. Another quick tip on colors is to match your outfit colors to your home decor so when you get your prints and hang them on your walls, they will match nicely.

Color palette chart showing muted semicircle shapes in pastel greens, blues, purples, and earth tones.
Minimalist nude color palette featuring six shades from dark brown to off-white.

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Choose a pattern


Now, when it comes to patterns, id highly suggest choosing only one to two patterns for your family session! Having too many patterns can make the photos too busy or even cause outfits to clash. But having at least one pattern can really help bring some fun to your outfits! Id also suggest only dressing 1 or 2 of the people in the family in the pattern. Avoid putting everyone in a patterned outfit or it will once again, look too busy.

Add some texture


Think denim, silk, suede, lace, chunky knits, corduroy, etc. Adding texture to your outfits makes the photos more interesting and truly brings your attention to the subjects (you and your family) in a photo. Not only that, but it allows you the ability to play around with more accessories like jewelry, scarves, belts, etc...

Fall family portrait with seven people in coordinating outfits against yellow autumn foliage.
Intimate family portrait on grey couch with newborn baby and toddler in soft lighting.

This family did a PHENOMENAL job at combining multiple patterns!

Notice how the lace on Moms dress and the sweet bow in babies hair really brings depth to the photo!

comfort is key!


Please! Please! Please! Do NOT dress yourself or your family (especially kids) in outfits they/you are not comfortable in. I cannot tell you how many times Ive seen meltdowns from kids because they were uncomfortable in their shoes and outfit. Let’s just avoid it all together and find clothes that everyone can be happy about! Plus, if you have to suck it in the entire time and/or your feet are getting a blister from your shoes, you probably wont enjoy yourself either. Our #1 goal is to have fun so dress comfortably!

dress for the weather!


This is pretty straightforward, but be sure to dress for the season and the days temps! You can always bring along jackets or sweaters and throw them off to the side as we go along. Its better to be prepared!

Winter family photo with parents and children walking through snowy woods.
Family of four relaxing on blanket among fallen autumn leaves.
Family and dog standing together on wooden dock by peaceful pond.

 

things to avoid

 

performance fabrics


To keep it simple…your husbands nipples will be showing in all the photos 😅 so save the polyester golf polo for another day.

short dresses


This especially goes for kiddos still in diapers or girlies that love to do gymnastics moves. No one wants to see a diaper or undies in a photo so put some shorts on under the dress or find a matching diaper cover online for those littler ones!

And Mom's...if you can't sit down in the dress or bend over without it showing your bum...maybe pass on it!

transition lenses


If you typically wear glasses, I would 100% recommend wearing them for your session. Only stipulation is to avoid transition lenses. I have no way to edit a photo to show your eyes if they are being covered up by sunglasses! So choose the regular glasses and leave those transitions at home.

bra straps & see through clothing


This may sound obvious but many times it happens unintentionally. Make sure to wear your outfit outside in the daylight and move around a lot before wearing it to your session. That way you can make sure your clothes aren’t see through and your bra wont show when moving around!

logos and brand names


Avoid clothing with logos or brand names written on them. It looks tacky in photos and is really distracting.

The only time this would be an exception is if we are wearing team shirts or something as part of the session.

wrinkles


Yes, wrinkles are sometimes unavoidable with certain fabrics, but whenever possible, be sure to iron out or steam outfits beforehand. I have had people ask me to edit wrinkles out of photos and while I am often able to edit out a few wrinkles here (which is something I do without request) and there, if your entire outfit is wrinkly, it's a lost cause.

Autumn family portrait with vibrant orange foliage background.
A family of five sits together on a front porch wearing coordinated grey and plaid outfits in winter.

all said and done...


I know that dressing everyone for a family session can be challenging so please feel free to send me photos at any time before our session! I am more than happy to help and love being able to give my expert advice so your photos are exactly what you had envisioned. I can't wait to work with you and your family. See you at our session! :)